So you've found the man of her dreams. His heart sing, your pulse quickens, walking all moony eyes and have trouble thinking of something other than itself. Want to tell him you love him and think he is, but I do not have the sticky air - or worse, scare.
We've all heard horror stories about a fellow telling the other that they love and then get the "thanks, but no thanks" response.
Perhaps you have experienced it yourself, adding to fears. So how would you say you love without coming off as a stalker fear?
1) Choose the right place at the right time.
Think carefully about where and when you want to say. If you are concerned that respond enthusiastically helps to be prepared. Maybe you want to say on the anniversary of when you met, or place your first kiss, or during dinner at your favorite restaurant. Set the stage for romance and is able to respond more positively.
2) Make it romantic.
Powered by candlelight and music in the men and women who work. Wear something you know she likes to see that folds with his favorite food, and do so in a romantic atmosphere.
3) Make sure that you can save.
Before letting out, "I love you" say what you appreciate about him. Compliment and say that's what you really like. Tell her how wonderful it makes you feel when you are together and why you value your relationship. Be honest, and be specific. Let him know that you appreciate the many things that make it unique and special.
4) Consider the type of person he is.
If so, an occasional individual who likes to have fun, creating a romantic assault on a large scale can actually make you feel more nervous than passionate. It could better respond dragging "I love you" in a conversation around a picnic lunch, or laughing at one of his favorite movies.
By the time you get to express your love, you must know well enough - so choose a time and place that is most comfortable for him.
5) participation, not again.
You want to say what you feel, not blackmail saying again. It may not be willing to say again, and if you feel that guilt is pressed for it. And no matter what you do, do not miss out as part of an argument. Squeal, "But I love you!" Not romantic, is disturbing and selfish.
6) Take the path on the loose.
If you can not bring outright say "I love you", try a full leverage less say the same. "I like you have your arms around me", "I like the way you look at this shirt" and "I like the way her eyes sparkle when you smile" is smaller returns and a good way to measure their feelings .
7) Do not say under the influence.
A glass of wine can give you the courage to say those three little words, but several glasses of wine will do just careless and stupid. Also, think about the message you are sending it seems that you had to get drunk to tell her you love her! Do it while sober, so that both of you know that tells you exactly what you say.
8) Be prepared for the worst.
No matter how much you fantasize say "I love you" again, do not put all your hopes on it. You may not be ready. Worse, you can not feel the same for you. Saying "I love you" should be a gift from you to him, not a reciprocal request - and if you set all their hopes on knowing exactly how you imagined, that may well be disappointed.
Have a backup plan in place in case you do not return your feelings - knowing that you may end up crying into his pillow or sitting for a friend complaining about her broken heart. If he says "I want you back", that's fine. But if it does, it will go fo it is better if you already prepared for this eventuality.
Above all, remember to say "I love you" does not really change anything. While this may be fine for every romantic movie, share these words do not always mean happy. This simply means that you are moving in a slightly different stage of their relationship - there is still much to share with others, and who knows what the joys and challenges?
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